Down Syndrome Awareness-Just like everyone else

Dear Sawyer,


I think one thing people assume (incorrectly) is that you cannot do things other children can do.  That you do not feel the same emotions that other kids feel.  That you do not want what other children want.

Boy, are they wrong.  You do want what other kids want.  You want to have friends like everyone else.  You want to be included in things.  Your feelings get hurt like everyone else.  Some people get that.  Some don't.

One group that truly understands this is our local Down syndrome parents group.  It's a wonderful group and I so enjoy going to things they do. 

Last week, we went to one of their events.  It was a party at one of the jumpy places.  You so love jumpy places.  You were a wild man!  (in a good way)  You had the best time! (as did Judson and Ansley)  Here are a few pics I thought you'd like to see. 

Everyone was amazed that you sat still long enough for face paint.  To be honest, so was I.  But you wanted it very badly.  So, you did it!!!!   You got down off that chair and went around to everyone and started growling and trying to scare them.  They were scared!!!!  

Then you wanted a sword.  You started a trend.  After that, everyone wanted a sword. THEN all the little boys were sword fighting.  It was very cool!

My advice to you, Sawyer is:  Don't be held back by those who have no clue.  If you want something, go for it.  Also, don't settle for the bar that is set too low.  Keep raising the bar and keep climbing.   You can and will go places.  You prove it everyday.  And for those who do  not include you, keep moving forward. Most generally you will win them over. You  win folks over each and every day.  For those who cannot see it, their loss.  Don't ever let them stop you from growing and living life to its fullest.

Love,
Mom