Saturday night we had our "almost like a real holiday" Valentines celebration. Randy being the special and wonderful husband that he is decided he'd take us out on Sunday for yet another Valentines celebration. I got to pick where! My only criteria was: 1) I do not have to go to the counter and order the food 2) They wait on me from start to finish, meaning I don't have to clean up either.
So after some research we decided to eat at Frontera(Tex-Mex) Restaurant. It's a family restaurant and the kids can fill up on chips while we wait so no one gets grumpy or bored. Plus, it's noisy enough if my kids do get loud, who'll notice? It met all criteria and then some!
While we were waiting on our food, the kids noticed the staff was pulling together many tables behind us. Being curious, they started asking us questions. We told them there must be a large 'party' going to be seated there.
Sure enough, a LARGE party was seated. 11 kids and 4 adults to be exact! They were a multiracial group. (Hispanic, Caucasian, African-American, Bi-racial) It was quite fun to watch them being seated and how the parents situated each child into the proper place at the table. I chuckled to myself as some kids had to move because they were not allowed to sit by certain other kids. Some kids were situated between parents. Some were allowed to sit at the 'kid end' of the table. I chuckled because that is exactly how we do it but on a much smaller scale.
It was quite interesting to watch the whole dynamic of the table. How quickly they seated the children. How well behaved the children were without the parents constantly telling them to be nice/quiet/etc. Which kids were talkative. Which ones were quiet. How the parents took control of what was being ordered while making sure the kids got what they wanted. The whole thing was very fun to watch. (Because I'm a people watcher and because I was lucky enough to be facing them)
Finally when all was quiet and the parents could catch their breath, they looked around and noticed our table. Fun to see them elbow the next one to check us out. Then see them discuss us. (Like I did them with Randy. Foster? Domestic?) Then a few minutes passed and they noticed Sawyer. Again a quick discussion amongst the parents. There was instant bonding between us without a single word being spoken. Although I'm sure they considered us amateurs because we had so few kids. ;)
Not only did I get a nice dinner out but also a nice floor show too!!!! How lucky can a Mom get?