So much happens in a year and sometimes we are so busy 'experiencing' life that we forget how we got to where we are. (Make sense?) Towards the end of 2005, my Grandmother died. She was a wonderful lady who lived to be 95 years old. She taught me alot about life and living and I still miss her very much. During that same time, we also prepared our dossier to send to Taiwan so that our case could enter into the courts and we could adopt Ansley. Now towards the end of 2006, we will be celebrating the holidays with family. My grandmother's spirit is still alive. Her memories can never be erased. Our daughter has been home for 6 months. We are making new memories everyday. So while we are ring in 2007, let's take a look back at what we learned in 2006.
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CHALLENGE YOURSELF. You can do much more than you think you can. Do NOT take the easy road. It's boring and predictable and you'll be saying someday, "I wish I had". You may not be able to do it all at once (or maybe you will) but you can work up to your goal. So, get off your duff and do it! Sign up for that class on how to write the great American novel. Get off the couch and start walking. Before you know it, you'll be ready to run that 5K you've been wanting to do for so long. Start talking to an adoption agency. Next thing you know, that child you've been dreaming of will be calling you mommy/daddy. To quote the Nike commercials, JUST DO IT!
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TRUST YOURSELF. There will be folks that will tell you it can't be done. Hopefully, there will be people to support you also. In the end, you know if it's something you're willing to work towards. The people who are telling you "don't do it" are usually telling you because it's something they are not willing to do. Who's asking them, right?
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BE KIND TO YOURSELF. You may or may not succeed in making your dream a reality. It may take more than one try. You may make mistakes along the way. That's okay. You learn and you move forward. Push the negative thoughts out of your mind. Stay away from negative people. (Life's too short) Be one of the positive people-to yourself and to others.
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ENCOURAGE OTHERS. Don't be a nay-sayer! No one (let me repeat, NO ONE) wants to be around negative people. Help others succeed and you'll be helping yourself too.
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NO EXCUSES. Try your best and there's no need for excuses.
So that's my pep talk for now. Go out and make some resolutions and then start working towards them. You just might surprise yourself.